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The Hidden Patterns That Keep You Stuck: An Introduction to Family and Systemic Constellations
Have you ever felt like you were living someone else's story? Like the struggles you face in your relationships, work, around money and belonging feel too familiar, too persistent or too old to be entirely your own? You might be right. Family and Systemic Constellations is a therapeutic approach that explores how the patterns, traumas, and unresolved events of your family system can live on in you, often without you knowing. It is one of the most profound and surprising forms
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5 Signs Your Subconscious Beliefs Are Running Your Life
You make decisions every day. You set intentions, you work hard, you try to think positively. And yet something keeps getting in the way. The same situations keep arising. The same feelings keep coming back. If this sounds familiar, your subconscious beliefs may be running the show — and this post will help you recognise the signs. What is a subconscious belief? A subconscious belief is a program running beneath your conscious awareness. It was formed during childhood, or inh
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What Is ThetaHealing® — And Can It Really Change Your Life?
If you've heard the word "ThetaHealing" and wondered what on earth it is — or whether it's for you — this post is the honest, clear answer you've been looking for. The short answer ThetaHealing® is a meditation-based healing technique that works by identifying and changing the subconscious beliefs that quietly shape every aspect of your life, such as your relationships, your health, your finances, and your sense of self-worth. It was developed by Vianna Stibal in 1995 and is
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Why Do I Keep Struggling With Money No Matter How Hard I Try?
Do you work hard, try to be responsible, and still find yourself cycling through the same financial patterns? Anxiety, scarcity, unexpected setbacks? You are not failing. You are carrying something that was never yours to begin with... Most of our beliefs about money are not formed by our own experiences. We internalize them in our childhood; from our parents' feelings, from what was said and what was not said around the dinner table, from the collective story of the family w
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2025 - New Year, New YOU!
It is the first day of 2025 and we are up in the morning either after a night of partying or going to bed after what feels like a regular...
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Overcoming Fear to Move Forward!
Fear is the only thing that really stops us from moving in the direction of our passion and playing big! We are so conditioned to fit in...
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Boundaries!!!
The word - boundary - is a scary word for some, unknown for others, non-existing for most... Let's start by defining what I mean by...
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Why do we have a tendency to create the opposite of what we want and how can we change it?
When we decide to take the path to change, grow, learn and become wiser, we accept that our life will be unpredictable. Most of us are...
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Do you ever communicate with nature?
Last week, I went to Boulder, CO. I had a retreat to attend in Aurora so I decided to go a day in advance as I have heard beautiful...
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Welcome to my page!
Hello! I would like to welcome you to my page where I will be sharing regularly. I usually write about my downloads and the types of...
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The Hidden Patterns That Keep You Stuck: An Introduction to Family and Systemic Constellations
Have you ever felt like you were living someone else's story? Like the struggles you face in your relationships, work, around money and belonging feel too familiar, too persistent or too old to be entirely your own? You might be right. Family and Systemic Constellations is a therapeutic approach that explores how the patterns, traumas, and unresolved events of your family system can live on in you, often without you knowing. It is one of the most profound and surprising forms


5 Signs Your Subconscious Beliefs Are Running Your Life
You make decisions every day. You set intentions, you work hard, you try to think positively. And yet something keeps getting in the way. The same situations keep arising. The same feelings keep coming back. If this sounds familiar, your subconscious beliefs may be running the show — and this post will help you recognise the signs. What is a subconscious belief? A subconscious belief is a program running beneath your conscious awareness. It was formed during childhood, or inh


What Is ThetaHealing® — And Can It Really Change Your Life?
If you've heard the word "ThetaHealing" and wondered what on earth it is — or whether it's for you — this post is the honest, clear answer you've been looking for. The short answer ThetaHealing® is a meditation-based healing technique that works by identifying and changing the subconscious beliefs that quietly shape every aspect of your life, such as your relationships, your health, your finances, and your sense of self-worth. It was developed by Vianna Stibal in 1995 and is
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