Why do we have a tendency to create the opposite of what we want and how can we change it?

When we decide to take the path to change, grow, learn and become wiser, we accept that our life will be unpredictable. Most of us are afraid of the word unpredictable. Our minds are conditioned to predict the future as that is our ego's mechanism of protecting us.

I actually love my ego. I am thankful to have it as ego protects us from physical danger. We need it and the last thing we need to do is resist it. Our ego also likes to keep us in the known as it feels that we are safe when things are predictable. Being in the predictable also means that we keep living the same life over and over again which makes no room for creativity, change or growth. This takes us directly back to the last paragraph. Can we change and grow and still be safe? Yes, that safety in this case will not be created by our egos but rather by our trust in the Quantum Field of infinite possibilities.

Quantum field has been studied since the 1920s and is believed to be the most successful scientific theory of all time. In the Quantum, there are endless possibilities for everyone in every area. We may have a hard time creating the life we want, creating abundance or health and not feel worthy of those things. We may have those limiting beliefs from our life paths, family or the society that we were raised in etc. Basically when we do not have what we want, we are the ones blocking our own access to having it due to our ego's need to protect us from danger. The ego feels that each time we cannot predict our lives, we are in danger, that is not true when we create from the quantum field that we all have a right to access just because we are alive.

When we imagine a life that we want with an excitement to live it, we manifest our desires very easily. If we imagine a life that we want but feel like it is too good to be true or that we are not worthy of it, we actually attract the opposite of it. The law of quantum is very simple, we are always in the process of creating and manifesting. Everything we live in this world is our creation so the question is why do we create opposite of what we actually want? Simply because unconsciously that's what we are asking the Universe. When we say that we want a beautiful house but feel unworthy of it and start feeling guilty about it, we say to the Universe that we are unworthy of that house. When we say that we want a beautiful house and see ourselves living in it, decorating, cooking, taking a bath, hosting friends and family and feeling grateful to have that house in our hearts, we tell the Universe that we are ready for it and we are worthy to have it. This is when things flow and suddenly we have that house we have been seeing ourselves "live" in it. Do you see the difference between those two states of creation?

This is such a fun game for me now. I want to manifest things in my life just to see them manifest more than really wanting them. Knowing in my past, that without realizing, I created a lot of difficulties in my life, I now understand that it can be simple and fun. I am happy to know that I am the creator of my life and I am able to create anything I would like to create. Suddenly, it becomes such a whole feeling that I become grateful for and worthy of it. As a result; I love myself, my life, and everything and everyone around me. What I used to consider as "problems" are now reasons for growth. I look forward to those hiccups along the way only to shed more unconscious beliefs to move even further in life. By staying in this state, I spread that love and possibility to others around me just by being an example. "How are you always so happy?" has been a very common question since this shift and I would like to show people how I am always so happy and that it is possible for them without an exception as well.

I watch the sunrise most mornings throughout the year and I never see it rise the same way as before. Why would we rise the same way as previous days? Why not amaze ourselves and others by shining so willing and brightly just like the sun to make it a possibility for others as well? Aren't we here to live an abundant, happy, worthy, healthy life with full of possibilities anyway?