Overcoming Fear to Move Forward!

Fear is the only thing that really stops us from moving in the direction of our passion and playing big! We are so conditioned to fit in and play the "game" of life according to its rules, like the majority, that we really lose ourselves in a program and end up living our whole lives doing things we do not enjoy and putting off or pushing down the things we are passionate about. Why is that?

We have been conditioned, since we were very young to "get a real job", "Artists don't make enough money", "Don't waste your life going after a silly and unrealistic dream", "You are not equipped, smart enough and/or hardworking enough to deserve that", "Where will you get the money from?" type of comments from our loved ones and society who mean well for us that we are subconsciously programmed into feeling "not good enough" and we let our dreams go...

Do you remember your early childhood? Do you remember the self-confidence you had and believed that you could do anything and be anyone you wanted? You actually would become the "doctor", "superhero", "a person with invisible gifts" etc and you were very good at acting those characters! You believed you were those characters and your family celebrated that about you and encouraged you to do more of that. You had it in you, you trusted yourself that you could do anything in a very humble way!

Then one day, that same family suddenly told you not to dream but to "be realistic" and in order to thrive in this world you "had to work really hard", get good grades, get a great job and as a result you could get that house you did not own, lease that car you did not own, pretend you were happy and ignored all the symptoms your body gave you as warning with some magic "pill" and continued working and working without really enjoying your life any more and until those symptoms got way bigger and you could not ignore them any more!

The worst day of your life can actually be the best day of your life if you are willing to "listen" to the messages that your body has been giving you for many reasons. This is called "awakening" or "initiation". Most of us need to go through the "growing pains" of our souls in order to be initiated. It CAN be the best day of your life! My question to you is do you really need to go through all that suffering for years on end in order to be initiated? Can you just follow your dreams and life purpose from the beginning of your life and dare to live your truth?

I believe you can which is why I hope that I am raising my children in tune with who they are here to be. It is important to never say "You CANNOT" but encourage them when they want to do something by asking questions, showing interest and trusting them that they will find their own answers in the quietness when they are busy with "nothing". I tend to figure out a lot about myself or get answers to my questions during "nothingness" that maybe considered unproductive or lazy times in the Western world but completely necessary to create anything. Being in that nothingness and "daydreaming" is the time we are connected energetically to receive the information we need to realize our purpose, dreams, intentions and that is a place where we are away from fear and connected to love and wholeness.

People who invented things from "scratch" like TV, phone, car, wheel, light and anything and everything you see around you are the "geniuses" who connected to that wholeness and downloaded the information to do so. We are all connected to that "empty space" or "field" that geniuses like Einstein or Tesla have always talked about.

What I am here to say is that we all have that "genius" in us and we can easily reach it by letting go of the programming, such as fear, guilt, feeling not good enough etc, embedded far within our subconscious minds that we have been given since our childhood. That programming was given to us for our safety which led us not to take any risks but when you experience the energy of the field, you trust that power more to take risks and bring out the genius in you to download the information in order to create. As a result of accomplishing that mission, the Universe gifts you with incredible amount of love and happiness and gratitude. They say that you feel happiest when you do something for others and this is the reason for it.

Energy psychology is the field that works with the subconscious mind to bring out those beliefs given to us as we cannot reach there with our conscious mind. Our conscious mind is too busy being in fear, anxiety, worry and the worse case scenarios that in order to get to those beliefs that run our lives, we need to quiet the conscious mind that always talks about the worse case scenario. Theta brain waves or hypnotic state is the state of our brain to reach those beliefs which is why I always say that the fastest and most effective way to break-free from the negative beliefs that disable us from becoming our unlimited selves is with energy psychology no matter what modality you choose to work with.